I am troubled by something…
Why do we (Christians) seem to always assume the worst in people? Where we watch for a person, or church or ministry to seemingly “step out of line” with our beliefs and then we assume the very WORST…
- A preacher teaches something that we don’t like and we ASSUME he is just a fake.
- Someone has a different theology than we do and we ASSUME that they are wrong and probably not even a christian.
- A church uses a method or approach that goes against the norm and we ASSUME that they are “straying from the faith” and just out to entertain.
- A prominent leader messes up and we feel vindicated in our “discerning” judgment.
- We hear a “concern” (polite word for rumor) and ASSUME that it’s true.
I am all for constructive debate and healthy discussion… but it seems that (at least in the church) if someone doesn’t act like us, look like us and believe EXACTLY like us then we ASSUME the worst… there HAS to be a better way.
Personally, I try to ALWAYS assume the best in people. If I mess up, I want to err on the side of grace… I am not saying that we shouldn’t hold each other accountable or that we should throw discernment out the window, but lets get the FACTS (crazy idea) BEFORE we cast judgement.
“If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.” Galatians 5:15